Bragging. That word gets such a strong reaction from many women I know. Somehow it has become bad to brag….especially when I speak with women. Ok, ok, I know, the definition of the word doesn’t seem positive. At the same time, the importance of doing what the word is asking of us is very important for our success and career goals.
I was once teaching a women’s conference where participants were asked to share one personal and one professional achievement. Many women struggled, the most common achievement was the same, safe wheel house. My kids, my degree. ( If I asked, could you brag about something not related to your kids or schooling?)
One woman actually said she could not do the activity. When encouraged, she started to cry.
Both are examples of having a negative mindset about self-promotion…..bragging.
It’s time to change our mindset about bragging. Why?
🏼 you cannot assume people know
🏼 you want people to be aware of your achievements and accomplishments
🏼 just putting your head down hoping to be recognized won’t work long term
🏼 by sharing you attract more opportunity and successes in you life and career
[Tweet “Own your accomplishments! Speak up and share.”]
So how can you embrace bragging positively?
- Change the word: proclaim, proud, speak up, sell (oh that one scares you? LOL), publicize, qualify, “own it”!
- Build self-worth: when you speak of yourself confidently, and share, others view you in high regard.
